Autism (cont.)

Support Groups and Counseling

Having a child diagnosed with autism can be a devastating experience for many parents and families. They may feel frustrated, confused, and afraid-they may even "grieve" for their "normal child."

Living with autism presents many new challenges for the person with autism and for his or her family and friends.

• Parents of autistic children certainly have many worries. They wonder if their children will be able to achieve, if they will be able to be independent, and if they will be able to be happy and enjoy life.
  
  
• Parents also probably have many worries about how the autism will affect them and their ability to live a normal life, that is, to care for their family and home, to hold a job, and to continue the friendships and activities they enjoy.
  
  
• Many people feel anxious and depressed. Some people feel angry and resentful; others feel helpless and defeated.

For most people who have a child with autism, and even for some with autism themselves, talking about their feelings and concerns helps.

• Friends and family members can be very supportive. They may be hesitant to offer support until they see how you are coping. Don't wait for them to bring it up. If you want to talk about your concerns, let them know.
  
  
• Some people don't want to burden their loved ones, or they prefer talking about their concerns with a more-neutral professional. A family therapist, social worker, counselor, or member of the clergy can be helpful if you want to discuss your feelings and concerns about your child's autism. Your health care provider should be able to recommend someone.
  
  
• Many people who have a child with autism are profoundly helped by talking to other people in the same situation. Sharing your concerns with others who have been through the same thing can be remarkably reassuring. Support groups for families affected by autism may be available through the organizations providing treatment and education for your child.

For information about support groups in the area for families with an autistic child, contact the following organizations:

• Autism Society of America - (800) 3AUTISM or (800) 328-8476
  
  
• National Alliance for Autism Research - (888) 777-NAAR or (888) 777-6227
  
  
• The Source (MAAP Services) - (219) 662-1311

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