Melissa Conrad Stöppler, MD, is a U.S. board-certified Anatomic Pathologist with subspecialty training in the fields of Experimental and Molecular Pathology. Dr. Stöppler's educational background includes a BA with Highest Distinction from the University of Virginia and an MD from the University of North Carolina. She completed residency training in Anatomic Pathology at Georgetown University followed by subspecialty fellowship training in molecular diagnostics and experimental pathology.
Living with leukemia presents many new challenges for the patient and for their family and friends.
The patient will probably have many worries about how the leukemia will
affect them and their ability to live a normal life, that is, to care for their
family and home, to hold their job, and to continue the friendships and
activities they enjoy.
Many people feel anxious and depressed. Some people feel angry and resentful; others feel helpless and defeated.
For most people with leukemia, talking about their feelings and concerns can be therapeutic.
Friends and family members can be very supportive. They may be hesitant to offer support until they see how the patient is coping. The patient should not wait for them to bring it up. If the patient wants to talk about their concerns, let them know.
Some people don't want to "burden" their loved ones, or they prefer talking about their concerns with a more neutral professional. A social worker, counselor, or member of the clergy can be helpful if
the patient wants to discuss their feelings and concerns about having leukemia.
The hematologist or oncologist should be able to recommend someone.
Many people with leukemia are profoundly helped by talking to other
people who have leukemia. Sharing concerns with others who have been through
the same thing can be remarkably reassuring. Support groups of patients and
families with leukemia may be available through the medical center where the
patient is receiving treatment. The American Cancer Society also has information about support groups all over the United States.
For more information about support groups, contact the following agencies:
American Cancer Society: 800-ACS-2345
National Cancer Institute, Cancer Information Service: 800-4-CANCER (800-422-6237); TTY (for deaf and hard-of-hearing callers): 800-332-8615